Technique: Who is RIGHT and who is LEFT behind?

Help! During a skate session, I was sitting by a coach who was putting their skates on, and talking about how some other well-regarded coaches are teaching incorrect technique. They complained that one coach has their skaters put their hands down low doing a jump. And another coach has their skaters' put their toe behind and across their front leg going into a jump - but really it should just be directly behind.

I have never skated myself, and I don't know these things. When my skater had to change coaches, the new coach(es) had my skater retreat from doing doubles and re-learn single jumps with a different technique. My skater HAS improved, but the original coach had told me that where my skater is now (more height and strength) would come in time, and with repetition and practice, and maybe it would have. Getting to the same place, just from a different route.

In another skater's situation, when they moved to our club, the new coach also changed a skater's jumps when they took over their training, and had them re-learn just about everything, explaining that what the skater was doing was fine for doubles, but that technique would never hold when the skater started to do triples. That coach has trained many champions, so who is going to argue? The skater started from scratch and spent a year re-learning everything. The skater is now doing great, by the way. But would the skater be doing as great with another coach, with a different method? There are a number of schools of thought...

As a matter of fact, if you want to add a coach to your line up, (maybe a jump coach, or a choreographer, let's say, that you've noticed getting really good results with other skaters,) many times your current coach will discourage those certain other coaches that you think are good, claiming that they teach differently and it would only confuse your skater. So, no, they will tell you -- don't take from that coach -- try this coach -- and they often go on and recommend a coach that falls in with their method. It's "coach etiquette" that you get permission from your primary coach before you do anything with any other coach, including off-ice.

So, which coach(es) is/are "right" and how do you know, especially if you yourself are unschooled in skating? And even if you are knowledgable, every coach has a different opinion. Is there a best approach? Is my skater learning correct technique? Will I be told, if we change coaches at some point, that my skater needs to re-learn everything (again) RIGHT, from foundation up, or my skater will be LEFT behind? It's scary, considering the cost of training and the age of the skater, to think about this. Because even if your coach is getting excellent results NOW, what about the skater's foundation for later work, as I "heard" (granted from another skate mom who has put her already excellent skater with this "championmaker" of skaters) talk about? And remember, I also heard the other excellent coach complain about some very well-regarded coaches' methods, along with a story or two of how one "ruined" more than one skater's perfectly good jumps...

Reputation doesn't always tell all it seems... The very first "tot" coach my skater took lessons from apparently doesn't have a good reputation, and it reflected on my skater's reputation, even now, many years later (Who's your coach?)

So, HELP -- I don't know what to think or which coach is worth the investment of so much time and money. Anybody getting ready to switch coaches? What are YOUR feelings, knowledge or experience? And who do you trust -- how do you decide who to trust your skater's future to?

Popularity and "who's your coach?"

Popularity begins with fitting in. At our rink, most skaters belong to our FSC (figure skating club), and are all supposed to show good sportsmanship and support each other. But there is still an "in" crowd, broken into cliques depending on age, level and discipline, and if you are not "in", you definitely stand out or worse, fade into the background... So how do you become "cool" and make friends?

The most important question the parent or skater will be asked seems to be "Who's your coach?" If you take lessons with a top coach, it may not guarantee you will be liked, but at least you will be noticed, known and high-fived -- having "bonding" opportunities and fitting in to some degree. If you take from a lesser coach, you will need to work harder on every level to be part of the team, coming to skate everyday at a place where "everybody knows your name" (NOT.)

To a lesser degree, parents can help or hinder popularity. They need to chat with the right people (parents of the "stars" or well-liked kids, board members, etc.), sit with the right people, do a favor and offer to pick up or drop off a popular skater, and very importantly: gossip "correctly."

If a skater hopes to fit in, get cheers and support from their peers or have someone to talk to or sit with between sessions, feeling "part of the club," they are sliding a slippery slope (to be or do, or to not be or not do, or ???.) So, some just come and work on their skating and are not bothered by acceptance. Some are shy. But others are very much aware of their club and it can be daunting to a young, growing personality to not "really" be part of the club, even though they paid to be a member for years, show up every day to skate, try to fit in and make friends... What are they doing "wrong?" Will this social acceptance or lack of, ultimately effect their enjoyment of the sport?

I don't think that the youngest skaters are seriously effected by social stigma, but as the blade turns, skaters develop and hit puberty -- is it important for a skater to fit in and have friends at the rink they skate at? I think it is, since the other "rink rats" are the kids that understand what it takes to train and compete. Friends at school or down the street can't really understand or offer support. As a matter of fact, my skater has had friends (more than one) urge them to skip a session to "play." My skater has to explain to them that they want to skate, and to skate, they have to go and train. There is rarely time off. It's hard. Which is why they need friends at their rink who are also skaters and who understand. And who else can your skater share the thrill of finally landing their (double, triple) axel cleanly with (and again, who will really understand, besides their coach or other skaters)?

Well, no matter, as your skater will learn along with technique, life is hard and slippery as ice, whether you are in school, playing another sport, or at the rink. But meanwhile, by the way, who's your coach?

Who's your coach?

It almost seems that there is a hierarchy of skater popularity, and of course, each child's personality has a great deal to do with where they stand in the club at their rink. Good sportsmanship demands we all cheer for everyone, but some kids get way more peer support than others. And don't forget, for the skater to be part of the popular crowd, the parent has a big responsibility too.



So many questions... But it seems that a super important question is "Who's your coach?" If you do not take lessons from one of the top coaches, the skater's standing suffers a bit. And often the best coaches are a bit more expensive, or require a certain number of sessions a week. And it is often hard to get a spot with them, or perhaps you started with a different coach and it's not "political" to switch coaches in mid-stream.



So, what's a poor family to do if their child wants to be a great skater and feel comfortable, accepted and known at their club? Do they need to be popular and in with the right clique at the rink? Can the skater succeed with a coach that does not have as many "successes" under their belts? Should, or even can they consider switching coaches? Will it help their child have that little extra support and loud cheering from their coaches other students, to help push them towards fun and success? If your skater is loving what they do, does any of the politics matter? How old is your skater? Is popularity is important?... Or can you insulate your skater and let them do what they love without being part of a successful coach's "kids." And can a skater succeed without their family going into masssive amounts of debt? Hmmm.....